Thursday, December 23, 2010

Gifts at Christmas

Christmas morning is quickly approaching...and on that morning families across the world will open presents that have been sitting under the Christmas tree.  The fact that there will be presents for you to open shows that God has been gracious to you...but it is also something we must approach with care.  Sometimes, when you have all that you need, it is hard to really believe that all you need is Jesus.  You might say it, but often life shows that we need Jesus and _____.  So here is the question I want to you ask this Christmas: IS JESUS ENOUGH?  Truly ask yourself that...without the lights, without the presents, without your health...if all that were gone would this still be a time to celebrate because Jesus is enough?  


Corrie Ten Boom, a Holocaust surviver who suffered and lost everything, says:  "You can never learn that Christ is all you need, until Christ is all you have."  Know this Christmas that he is enough.  That if you lost everything except Jesus...you would have everything you ever need!    


Read this blog post by Matt Chandler.  He is the pastor of my home church, who reflects on his fight with cancer one year after he was diagnosed.  Click Here to Read Matt Chandlers Blog Post


Is he enough?  Is He why we celebrate?  


Merry Christmas!  

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Dwelling on the Nativity

It is hard for us to even begin to imagine what it was like for Mary and Joseph at the time of Jesus' birth.  The great reformer, Martin Luther, articulates well some thoughts about the nativity that I would like to share:

"Truly it is marvelous in our eyes that God should place a little child in the lap of a virgin and that all our blessedness should lie in him. And this Child belongs to all mankind. God feeds the whole world through a Babe nursing at Mary's breast. This must be our daily exercise: to be transformed into Christ, being nourished by this food."

On Mary: "There was a poor young wife, Mary of Nazareth, among the meanest dwellers of the town, so little esteemed that none noticed the great wonder that she carried."

On the journey: "How many great ladies and their daughters there were at that time, living in luxury, while the mother of God, on foot, in midwinter trudged her weight across the fields! How unequal it all was!"

On the birth: "There she was without preparation: no light, no fire, in the dead of night, in thick darkness. No one came to give the customary assistance. The guests swarming in the inn were carousing, and no one attended to this woman. … There was the maid of fifteen years bringing forth her first-born without water, fire, light, or pan, a sight for tears!"

On the newborn Jesus: "They must have marveled that this Child was the Son of God. He was also a real human being. Those who say that Mary was not a real mother lose all the joy. He was a true Baby, with flesh, blood, hands and legs. He slept, cried, and did everything else that a baby does only without sin."

On Mary after the birth: "Think, women, there was no one there to bathe the Baby. No warm water, nor even cold. No fire, no light. The mother was herself midwife and the maid. The cold manger was the bed and the bathtub. Who showed the poor girl what to do? She had never had a baby before. I am amazed that the little one did not freeze. Do not make of Mary a stone. It must have gone straight to her heart that she was so abandoned. She was flesh and blood, and must have felt miserable-and Joseph too-that she was left in this way, all alone, with no one to help, in a strange land in the middle of winter. Her eyes were moist even though she was happy, and aware that the Baby was God's Son and the Savior of the world."

"Mary was not only holy. She was also the mother of the Lord. With trembling and reverence, before nestling him to herself, she laid him down, because her faith said to her, 'He will be "the Son of the Highest."' No one else on earth had this faith, not even Joseph, for although he had been informed by the angel the word did not go to his heart as to the heart of Mary, the mother."

May these thoughts about the nativity bring us to worship!  To realize the humility it took for the God in the flesh to born to such a situation.  

*from Martin Luther's Christmas Book translated by Roland H. Bainton © 1948 The Westminster Press

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Common Objections to no Santa (Santa, Part 4 of 4)

Here are some common objections I get when people find out that we will not do Santa in our house (note: this is just how we decided to do things in our house based on our convictions.  This is not the only way to do things.  The purpose of this is to help you think through things to make the best decision for your family based on your Biblical convictions.  The goal is not to get more people not doing Santa, rather to get more people thinking intentionally at Christmas.)

Objection: But it is so fun and magical for the kids.
Response:  True.  But I am willing to have my kids miss out on this joy in hopes that they see a greater joy at Christmas.  And lets be honest...what is magical about it isn't the reindeer dust or the cookies...its the fact that they get tons of toys.  That doesn't have to change.   

Objection: You can have both Santa and Jesus.  You don't have to choose.
Response: True.  Many people do both and it works out fine...but many people do both and it doesn't.  The problem is you don't know which side you fall on until your kids are grown.  For us, it isn't worth the risk.  The stakes are far too high. (side note: Santa and Jesus are so intertwined in our culture that other countries sell a cross with Santa on it in their marketplaces.  This isn't to mock us, rather it is what they think we believe based on what our culture has communicated.)

Objection: I don't want to be over the top.  People who don't do Santa are the super conservative Christians who don't get out much.
Response: Don't decide what you do based on the type of people that do it.  Base you decision on how you feel you can best raise you children up in the ways of the Lord. 

Objection: They will ruin in for others.
Response: They might.  You can try to explain to your kids what Santa is and tell them not to tell.  They may or may not listen...but if you do choose to not do Santa, you need to try your hardest to protect others who do Santa. 

Objection: So we shouldn't do Santa?
Response: You can still do Santa, but if you choose to do it, do it cautiously.  The Santa you communicate shouldn't be omniscient, he shouldn't be about giving gifts to only the good children, he shouldn't be used to scare kids into behaving, he shouldn't be central.

Objection: I am a grandparent...what am I supposed to do with this information?
Response: Remember, it isn't about doing or not doing Santa (or other traditions).  It is about communicating things Biblically.  There are people who do Santa and an incredible job of communicating the purpose of Christmas and making Christ central, while at the same time there are people who don't do Santa yet don't communicate to their kids the true purpose of Christmas.  It as all about what you communicate.  Talk to your grandkids about what Christmas is about.  Take the time to really sit down with them, you may not think they are listening, but they are.  It is amazing how many people I have talked to who consider their grandparents role models and a vital part of their spiritual growth.  Make this time of year an opportunity to fuel the spiritual growth of your grandkids.      

Hope this helps.  Happy thinking!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

The anti-gospel (Santa, Part 3 of 4)

"He's making a list, And checking it twice; Gonna find out Who's naughty and nice; Santa Claus is coming to town"

This is the climax. If I could name the biggest issue I have with Santa, this would be it: Santa communicates an idea that is the complete opposite of the gospel...so opposite that it is an attack on the true gospel.  But know that this isn't something that just Santa communicates, this is something our culture is saturated with.

Here is the Readers Digest version of the gospel: All of us have sinned and fallen short of what God commands.  The penalty for our rebellion in death and separation from God.  It is too late for us.  There is nothing we can do or work up that can get us back into right standing with God.  Our only hope is that God himself pays the penalty.  Since the sin was against God, someone equal to God must pay it.  Since the sin was committed by man, a man must pay it.  Thus, Jesus Christ is our only hope: fully God and fully man.  He paid our penalty because he is gracious and merciful, not because of anything we have done.  And to receive this gift, all we have to do is believe in the person and work of Jesus.  Nothing will earn the salvation he gives.     

So here is the gospel and Santa contrasted:
Santa's gifts are given to the good kids.  Christ's gifts are given to the bad ones (which is all of us).
Santa's gifts are based on works.  Christ's are based on faith.
Santa tells us we can do it on our own.  Christ tells us we can't...but he already has.  
Santa weighs the good vs. bad.  God looks at the good: Jesus
Santa is all about "stuff."  Christ is all about relationship.
Santa cares about your actions.  Christ cares about your heart. 
Santa makes us feel entitled (we earned it).  Christ makes us feel grateful (we don't deserve it).
Santa makes Christmas about gifts.  God makes Christmas about the giver.   


Karma is everywhere, and this is no exception.  It is the idea that if we are good we should get good, and if we are bad we get bad.  But how do you explain the fact that thousands of "good" people die each day unexpectedly.  Karma is the idea that if my good outweighs the bad then I can get to heaven.  But if you commit a crime it doesn't matter how many time you served in the soup kitchen or how much money you gave to charity.  The jury is looking at the crime you committed.  We have committed a crime against God and that penalty must be paid. 

Please, if nothing else, protect the gospel this Christmas season.  Teach of God's grace.  Teach of how everything we have been given...everything...is a gift from God.  Teach of how we fall short of what God commands, and how we need a Savior.  Teach that we cannot do good apart from Jesus.  That we can't earn our way to heaven.  Teach that Jesus is enough.  Teach the gospel in all you do, and let nothing get in the way of this precious gift we have been given! 

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Omniscience is for fairy tales? (Santa, Part 2 of 4)

"He sees you when you're sleeping, He knows when you're awake, He knows if you've been bad or good, so be good for goodness sake!"

One of characteristics of God that distinguishes Him from anyone/anything else is his omniscience.  He knows all.  This shows his greatness, for what else can know even the intentions of our hearts?  Well, this song would put Santa into that all knowing camp.  But this is just for fun...it is harmless right?

There will come a day when Santa, the Easter Bunny, the Toothfaily, and all the like will cease to be believed in.  There will come a time when kids realize that that is silly fairly tale stuff.  Logic will tell them there is no way for a man to deliver presents all around the world in one night, that deer can't fly, that Santa can't fit through the chimney, and that there is no way for anyone to know everything we do.

Did you see that?  If Santa is fake then what he does is fake...and one of those things is his omniscience. While it is true that Santa isn't omniscient, could it be that the whole idea of omniscience is put into the fairy tale category?  On the surface this may not be seen as a big deal, but anytime we credit what is reserved for God to someone else, than it is a big deal to Him.  He alone is God, set apart from everything else. 

When the "magic" is over, what do we and our kids believe?  This is what we must think about.  Of course they enjoy it at the time...they would also enjoy eating cookies for dinner every night.  But what is the long term effect?  We are instilling in our kids and grand kids ideas that will affect them, even if they can never put a finger on where that viewpoint came from. 

If you choose to do Santa this year and in years to come, this, and all the other Santa blogs, hope to help you seriously think through how you communicate Santa and Jesus to your kids and grand kids.  Make it fun, but not spiritually dangerous.

Monday, December 13, 2010

You better watch out? (Santa, Part 1 of 4)

"You better watch out, you better not cry, you better not pout I'm telling you why...Santa Clause is coming to town."

What do we celebrate on Christmas?  This is the first question we must ask.  Christmas is a time we celebrate the birth of our sweet savior, Jesus Christ.  The world awaited his coming, and this is the day we worship Him.  We praise Him, for in His grace and mercy he humbled himself to leave his heavenly home, take on flesh, so he could one day die in our place for our sins.  What a glorious time to celebrate!  How can this be, that Jesus has done this for me...for you...

But I turn on the radio and hear lyrics such as one one above and cringe.  This song is teaching us to primarily worry about actions.  Are you jealous?  Well just don't pout about it...keep it to yourself.  Are you mad?  Don't cry and make a scene about it.  This is completely counter to what Jesus teaches.  Jesus is after the heart, not merely actions.  The issue is not the pouting, but the jealousy that caused it.  He is not after externally moral creatures...for if he was he would not have so viciously attacked the Pharisees.  Jesus is after the heart.  In a marriage, a husband desires his wife to truly love him, not just do things for him out of obligation...and Jesus is the same way.  He doesn't want merely actions, he wants a heart of love.  This is why Jesus motivates not from fear (if you aren't good you get coal), but love (you aren't good, but I love you) Don't let Santa influence to try to be perceived a certain way.  Let Jesus motivate you to BE a certain way. 


[The Santa series intent is to help us think deeply about the things we celebrate and do.  Since Santa is a deeply ingrained tradition in most households, this blog series will unintentionally pinch some nerves inside you.  This is not the intention.  The intention is to have us think Biblically about everything, which is increasingly more difficult in our culture.  The things addressed in this series are not just issues seen at Christmas, rather I am using Santa and this season to bring to light a general worldview our culture bombards us with.] 

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Book Recommendations for Christmas Gifts

Here is a list of books that would make great Christmas presents.  They are organized by category to help you sort through them based on who you are buying for.  See blog post "What You Didn't Ask For" for my reasons of why books make a great gift.  


You can click on all the book titles below (all are linked) to read more about the book on Amazon.com (free shipping if you spend $25.)  An "*" by the book puts it in a top tier category for me.  These are books I feel every house should have/read.  I have made comments on some, which will be in parentheses.     


For the Couple:

å    Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas

For the Parent:
å    *Gospel-Powered Parenting: How the Gospel Shapes and Transforms Parenting by William P. Farley (gets to the heart of parenting.  This should be one of the first books parents read) 
å    *Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp (complements the book above really well.  This one is more on the practical side whereas the above book is more focused on the heart of parenting.)
å    Treasuring God in Our Traditions by Noel Piper 

For the Kids:
å    *The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name by Sally Lloyd-Jones and Jago (incredible children's Bible!  Every story points to Jesus, showing kids what the Bible truly is about.  Every house with kids should have this in it)  
å    Big Thoughts For Little Thinkers by Joey Allen (There are 4 books in this series: The Trinity, The Gospel, The Scripture, The Mission.  They do an amazing job of explaining these essential Bible docrines in a way kids can understand.  Amazon.com is running a deal where you can buy all 4 for the price of 3!) 
å    The Big Picture Story Bible by David R. Helm (another great Bible, has great illustrations)

For Spiritual Growth:
å     Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God by Francis Chan
å     Overcoming Sin and Temptation - by John Owen (edited by Kelly M. Kapic, Justin Taylor)
å     *The Pursuit of God by A. W. Tozer
å     Calm My Anxious Heart: A Woman's Guide to Finding Contentment by Linda Dillow (for women) 
å     Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands by Paul David Tripp

For the Story Lover: 
å     Blue Like Jazz: Nonreligious Thoughts on Chrisian Spirituality by Donald Miller (very casual approach.  Fun and easy read that will get those no interested in God to think)
å     *Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers (for women) 
å     The Atonement Child by Francine Rivers (for women) 

For the thinker/theologian:
å     Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis (rational basis for Christianity)  
å     *Doctrine: What Christians Should Believe by Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears
å     The Church: Sacraments, Worship, Ministry, Mission  by Edmund P. Clowney 
å     In His Image by Philip Yancey and Paul Brand (A doctor examines the body, and relates how it was created in God's image.  Profound insights.) 

For the Biography lover: 
å     Here I Stand: A Life of Martin Luther by Roland Herbert Bainton
å     Jonathan Edwards: A New Biography by Jonathan and Darlene Edwards 
å     William Tyndale: A Biography by David Daniell 
These next four books are each contain several short biographies in each book.  All written by John Piper. (great way to read about many different heroes of the faith in a reasonable amount of time) 

For the History Lover
å     *Pocket History of the Church by D. Jeffrey Bingham
å     Lost Letters of Pergamum, The: A Story from the New Testament World by Bruce W. Longenecker (this is also a great one for the story lover) 

For the Student of the Bible
å     Holman Illustrated Bible Dictionary by Charles W. Draper
å     The New Unger's Bible Handbook by Merrill F. Unger and Gary Larson
å     New Bible Commentary by Gordon J. Wenham, J. Alec Motyer, Donald A. Carson, and R. T. France (great 1 volume commentary)

Friday, December 3, 2010

What You Didn’t Ask For

What do you want for Christmas?  That is the question we are asking our parents, spouses, kids, and grandkids.  We want to make sure the gift we get them is something they want.  So much thought and money are put into these gifts that will, in a year, be obsolete and collecting dust.  What if it were different?  What if we thought like Peter?

Peter and John were on their way to the temple to pray when they saw a crippled man being carried to the gate to beg for money.  Every day this man was carried there to beg, because it was money he needed to survive (being crippled he couldn't work).  Or so he thought.

As Peter and John passed the crippled man, he begged them for money.  Peter's response began how we normally respond, "Silver and gold I do not have."  Translation: I don't have any money.  But Peter continued with these words that should fill us with awe: "but what I have I give you.  In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk!"  The man leaped to his feet and began praising God as he walked away.  He got something he didn't ask for…but something he needed! (Acts 3:1-10)

What we all need is God.  We were made for Him, so deep within us is a longing for Him.  Augustine puts it best in saying "Thou hast formed us for Thyself, and our hearts are restless till they find rest in Thee?"  He is what we all truly want.  He is what we all truly need. 

Therefore, we must ask ourselves how our gifts, conversations, traditions, and everything else this Christmas can point to Christ.  Peter's main purpose in healing the crippled man was not that he would walk, but that he and others would know Christ.  This act led to people wondering how this happened, giving Peter the opportunity to preach one of the greatest sermons ever preached in Acts 3:11-26           

Here are some ideas of gifts that can point to Christ: One of the best gifts for this is a book that challenges, encourages, and fuels your passion for Christ.  Check the blog this month – I will be posting recommendations of books to give as gifts for different types of people, i.e. kids, couples, parents, thinkers, etc.  For other gifts, think of things that stir their affections for Christ.  Is it listening to music? Buy a CD and put a note about how you hope the creativity and art of song would help them fall deeper in love with the wonder of God.  Is it creating music?  Buy an instrument, equipment, or lessons and tell them your hope that this ability would cause them to worship God much deeper.  Is it art?  Buy a canvas and tell them you hope that in painting that would see the beauty of God and His canvas.  Is it being around family? Gardening?  Photography?  Coffee? 

The key here is finding what makes them know and love Jesus more.  This gives purpose to giving.  It makes it not just about the receiver, but about the ultimate giver.  We live in a world now that has hijacked Christmas, and it will take everything in us to display the true meaning of Christmas to our family. 

Don't give the gift they ask for…give the gift they need.      


*adopted from December 2010 Newsletter